happiness for single ladies

Every woman, like every man, like what is good. Most young women feel that what is good is in a man’s house. So, they live their lives with a heartbeating believe that someday, they will be married. But sometimes, in their fourties, it turns out to be like that dream of getting married to a man is shattered. And even before the fourtieth birthday, they would really be looking indeed depressed. But most part of the world today are more and more getting involved in activities that deprive ladies early marriage. Such activities involve the pursuit for higher education and career pursuits, insecurity on the part of men, discrimination of whom to marry, and fear of marriage which is usually based on the experience of their mothers.

Ackwardly, when a lady is not married at ‘the right time’, parental pressure slips in. Sometimes,especially in Africa, it is either a spiritual attack on the lady and her family or that the lady lack morals. Most often,this assumptions are rarely the case.

So far, fear is the beginning to occupy the minds of most undergraduating single ladies. They fear for lack of a husband after school. The ASUU strike will, indeed,wear the minds of such, because maybe a man who promised to them marriage would have began to be tired of waiting for them to graduate from school . Except plans would change.

Consequently, bad thoughts have driven many good girls to bed with hurrible men. The lady would have tried to please the man to secure a future marriage.

Some ladies even date married men. It is called ‘seeing a man’or ‘having fun,’ and that is where they get it blatantly wrong. There is a category that goes out with undergraduates for reasons of reputation.

The ‘I am God fearinglady’ would hold her peace and go about trying to live a responsible life. But maybe, many years after school, she would have still not found a man.

Where ever a lady finds herself, she should believe that life is good and that she can be her best, happily . Being a single lady doesn’t make a lower or a second class lady of her. If she were a man, she would be moving on ,but as a lady,she feels she cannot.

And I ask, why? Why would she become sorrowful instead of been grateful to God for her life and drive on? She would unfortunately believe in waiting for a man whom she may not understand better than she would understand herself.

The truth is that getting married to a man doesn’t make a lady complete, getting married to God does. A lady should not throw away her dignity at men. And being depressed would not bring a man for marriage, neither. Of course, it would worsen life when a lady begins to feel depressed or feels people are getting talking. When people are talking, it’s the right time to connect to God and do something great. It is the time to beleive in herself for happiness. It is the time to be cheerful and to begin to look bright. Sorry, it’s not the right time to look frustrated and start ‘sleeping’ with all sorts of demons simply because she feels one day marriage would come out of it.

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