happiness for single ladies

Every woman, like every man, like what is good. Most young women feel that what is good is in a man’s house. So, they live their lives with a heartbeating believe that someday, they will be married. But sometimes, in their fourties, it turns out to be like that dream of getting married to a man is shattered. And even before the fourtieth birthday, they would really be looking indeed depressed. But most part of the world today are more and more getting involved in activities that deprive ladies early marriage. Such activities involve the pursuit for higher education and career pursuits, insecurity on the part of men, discrimination of whom to marry, and fear of marriage which is usually based on the experience of their mothers.

Ackwardly, when a lady is not married at ‘the right time’, parental pressure slips in. Sometimes,especially in Africa, it is either a spiritual attack on the lady and her family or that the lady lack morals. Most often,this assumptions are rarely the case.

So far, fear is the beginning to occupy the minds of most undergraduating single ladies. They fear for lack of a husband after school. The ASUU strike will, indeed,wear the minds of such, because maybe a man who promised to them marriage would have began to be tired of waiting for them to graduate from school . Except plans would change.

Consequently, bad thoughts have driven many good girls to bed with hurrible men. The lady would have tried to please the man to secure a future marriage.

Some ladies even date married men. It is called ‘seeing a man’or ‘having fun,’ and that is where they get it blatantly wrong. There is a category that goes out with undergraduates for reasons of reputation.

The ‘I am God fearinglady’ would hold her peace and go about trying to live a responsible life. But maybe, many years after school, she would have still not found a man.

Where ever a lady finds herself, she should believe that life is good and that she can be her best, happily . Being a single lady doesn’t make a lower or a second class lady of her. If she were a man, she would be moving on ,but as a lady,she feels she cannot.

And I ask, why? Why would she become sorrowful instead of been grateful to God for her life and drive on? She would unfortunately believe in waiting for a man whom she may not understand better than she would understand herself.

The truth is that getting married to a man doesn’t make a lady complete, getting married to God does. A lady should not throw away her dignity at men. And being depressed would not bring a man for marriage, neither. Of course, it would worsen life when a lady begins to feel depressed or feels people are getting talking. When people are talking, it’s the right time to connect to God and do something great. It is the time to beleive in herself for happiness. It is the time to be cheerful and to begin to look bright. Sorry, it’s not the right time to look frustrated and start ‘sleeping’ with all sorts of demons simply because she feels one day marriage would come out of it.

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how you can make good money from your hobbies, even as a student

Every individual is always a product of their thought. Some persons view themselves with an inferior and inadequate lens. They simply feel that they can’t afford to do what others are doing. They feel they don’t have the nerves for it. Or they feel that they were born with a demon of weakness. And that all thier lives, they should be poor, financially. That’s the impression I would like to correct. A good life is every individuals birth-right. Funnily, living a good and successful life doesn’t require struggling. It doesn’t require a degree certificate, as most people would think. Perhaps, I can’t advocate against getting an academic certificate. But, I honestly feel that one’s ability for grabbing sucess is something that comes from the mind; motivationally. How one shapes their thought is essential for the lenght they can go.

There are as many things, as much as thought can go,to get involved in to attain enviable heights in life.

As a student, there are many opportunities. For instance if I like reading novels, that’s a hobby for me. I can for sure change it into fast cold cash. If I like watching football; Arsenal,Man-U,Chelsea and so on, I can make good money from that! Cold cash!

How can I make money from watching football as a fan?

There are a million and one ways to do so. I can bet! Now, that’s not gambling. I can bet because I know what I am going for, and its a hobby. I can make people pay to hear me talk about football! Poeple will always pay for what they like. Without much arguements, lets believe that your world is with you – and you can change it for good.

Most people have a hobby for watching fish swim in a shallow water. They fail to acknowledge that they can change the hobby into money, even students. Recently, new technologies have made it possible for fish to be produced in mobile ponds, instead of concrete ponds or earthponds as it was. A mobile fish pond enables you to relocate conviniently at anytime and anyday. And you can have the pond right in your bedroom or in the parlour, if you want. You can have it in the hostel or in your office. And as you sit there every day staring at swimming fish, you are staring at your money as it grows rapidly. It’s as easy as that! Your hobby can become your cash. A fingerling bought at twenty naira can be sold four to seventy month later at a thousand naira or more! If the fish is well fed, can really grow very rapidly. Some catfish grows very rapidly. Imagine having hundred fingerlings in a mobile pond at the price of twenty naira each. That will cost two thousand naira. And then four or five months later, the hundred fish is sold at a thousand naira. That will make a hundred thousand! Sweet cash! Thats what I call luck. Getting answers right away. Oh, you don’t know that celebrities make their living on hobbies? That’s right! Micheal Jackson, the late, would tell you right away that he danced for fun, not for money. Samuel Eto’o plays for fun, not for money. You can achieve greatness from fun. And remember, I am emphasizing that it will be right in the comfort of your home.

You feel we can talk? That’s right. You give me twenty minutes out of your time and I will change your hobbies into cold, hard cash. If I don’t I will apologise very specially for wasting your time. You want to call? Go ahead, dial +2347066386425 or send an e-mail to hulek2@yahoo.com .Have the moment your life has so longed for!

the situation with ASUU strike: president Yar Adua vows not to reat!

13 weeks ago, the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) strike started in Nigeria. Consequently, public Universities in the country have closed down. Public universities are fully grown with bushes. ASUU started the strike to drive home its demand for a better finding of universities, for academic freedom and University autonomy, for increased salaries of members and for the retirement age of members to be 70 years, rather than 64.

During the first weeks of the strike, the Federal Government of Nigeria, FGN, somehow had a dialogue with officials of ASUU. Consequently, the retirement age for professors has been lifted to 70 years, salaries of University lectures has been reviewed upwards by 40 percent. A professor would go home with a half smile and N450,000 while a low academic bags 90 pieces of a thousand naira note,monthly. Two Billion naira has been set aside for books and journal purchase. During those initial days of the strike, FG also accepted to increase grants for research works. And then, a University, a Polytechnic and a College of Education were selected for renovation and modernization. FG also said N210.5 billion naira will be allocated to education this year compared to the N210.5 billion of 2009 budget. So far, the Education Trust Fund, ETF, is to inject N33 billion in intervention projects and programmes.

ASUU has indeed pressed FGN to the wall to get this far. But truely speaking, the Nigerian higher Education Environment needs a re-wash! Most Universities have a grossly inadequate number of hotels for students. Students crowd in a room like housefly would do to spoit food. Universities don’t have laboratories or the available ones are very akward – and are always over crowded during practicals.

In some situations, light is always failing on campuses. Sometimes, student don’t have water to bath or drink for days! So, ASUU had to engage in an industrial strike action

But very woriedly is the fact that FG has to be pressed to a wall before it can realise the need for uplifting (or at least maintaining) the standard of education in the country! And even now, Federal Government is very reluctant to sign an agreement making it mandatory for state governments which own Universities to offer thier academic staff the same service conditions as those enjoyed by their counterpart in the Federal Universities.

The president of ASUU, Professor Akachukwu Awuzie, vowed in an ASUU meeting at the University of Ibadan (UI) on Thursday, August 20, 2009 that ‘‘it is better to die fighting on our feet, instead of crawling on our knees.’’

ASUU is indeed, determined for death! They are ready to bear the cross without salary payments. FG is also, been very sillent to react to the strike, recently – despite plead by individuals and organizations for Mr. President’s intervention.

Now, students are very idle. They can’t take-up jobs without certificates. So, most students go from streets to streets with frowning faces. Students are begining to become a burden to parents at home. And its begining to become more terrible. But why is FG so sillent?

Professor Awuzie, the ASUU president, said ‘‘it is true this government has instrument(s) of coercion; but we know that truth will always prevail.’’ One would say that the continuity of the strike is not putting the image of FGN in a good place. And that will be right! FG can devise better ways of handling the strike. And Nigerians are looking up to the President; whose one of the seven point Agenda is base on promotion of education.

But Mr President seems to, so far, be less worried over the strike. Perhaps he is handling better diplomatic situations at the time. Or has he vowed not to react to the strike?

the situation with ASUU strike: president Yar Adua vows not to reat!

how to use your time effectively

Whether one is rich or poor, tall or short, fat or thin, all people share an equal amount of time in terms of hours per day. That’s how nature has made it.

There is no individual who has twenty-five hours or thirty hours in a day. All have twenty-four hours. The value we attach to time, in some way, determines were we can be and when. Some students waste their doing nothing. They lazy around without a purpose. King Solomon in proverbs 6 talked to such:

You are snared with the Words of your mouth; you are taken with the words of your mouth. Do this now, my son, and deliver yourself. When you have come into the hand of your friend; go, humble yourself, and plead with your eyes, nor slumber to your eyelids. Deliver yourself as a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler. Go to an ant, you sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise: who having no guides, overseer, and no ruler, provides her food in the summer, and gathers her food in the harvest. How long will you sleep O sluggard? When will you arise out of your sleep? Yet a little sleeps, a little Slumber, of little folding of the Hand to sleep: so shall your Poverty come upon you like a Vagabond and your want like an armed man.

Sleeping a lot or idling around lazily is a time killer. This doesn’t mean one shouldn’t rest. But taking too much rest is not good enough. A student or any individual who uses time effectively is always ahead of others. While other people are sleeping at night, the individual with a foresight is busy building. When the day comes, the individual would have covered twice the work. That is the secrete of attaining enviable heights in an unbelievably short time. No individual who has true success has just been their like that by mistake. They made good use of their time. These achievers; when they walk up in the morning, they have a plan for the day, and they also follow the plan consistently. Even though every individual has tendencies for weakness and failure, successful people press ahead. They use their time effectively .we can live twice our life if we use both day time and very effectively.

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